Designer Lives ! Principles of Life Design (1)
I almost did a simple search on Google India when I started this post. I abandoned it when i saw.
Designer lifestyle - 26,400.000
Designer life coaching - 14.400,000
Designer Sarees - 8,69,000
Designer Sarees pic - 22,80,000
I spent some more time to find a coach to air these ideas. I was not successful because I had modelled my theory on the basis of my understanding of two of my role models who could be life coaches. One was over 100 years when he died (he ran out ot work) and the other is 113 years and still going strong. So all that search amounted to nothing?
Well. ....Almost.
(Almost, because Indians are slightly more interested in design than designer sarees and designer jewllery. The last time they were looking for somebody to head the national centre for design they approached one of my neighbours who dabble in jewellery design)
I turned my attention to the Times of India and the interview with Malcolm Gladwell. He certainly is right when he says we are information rich and theory poor. If the dogs can ‘see' what they see will be worth a look.
So we start with the theory and look for information to support the theory but one finds that all the information is of no use. My search had to be abandoned because most theories, in the long run, have not helped even the proponents other than getting some flea span of attention. Many gods die very young! At my age, I cannot afford to be taken for many more rides.
Why don't you stop theorising and get to the issue? Do you have a set of principles? Where do we begin?
Get ready for some mental jugglery.
- We need to make a SHIFT
- We need to approach Potential ,Performance, the WHY and How of the potential performance gap, simultaneously
- We need to take an informed position and be our SELF
- We need some simple metrics to be certain that we are on the PATH
Well that is juggling with too many balls at the same time?
It is now established that juggling improves your intelligence. More the balls, bettter it is . Most of us can manage just one or two at the same time.
Moreover, we have the four wheels, the engine (self) and the driver in place to begin the journey.
Wow. It is a DIY Manual !
Yes, it is.It is another day.
Of the 162 dogs why is it that this one finds it worthwhile to join us?
it knows that you are a recruitment manager and the difference between dog-ness and human-ness! It sniffs the difference between the rest of us and the one who knows what it is to be human!
Wow. That's an idea. Dogs could be used in recruitment. It would be more effective than most of our metrics. Perhaps I could patent the idea and leave my job to the dogs!
Well it is coming to that very soon. There are agencies that teach us to mimic animals or the rest of nature as if they hold the key to human-ness?
Why mimic?
- Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery
- It is such a headache to think, know, understand
But mimicry is a kind of pathetic humour that comes out of help - less - ness. When we don't have the original we make do with copies.
Let us come back to the issue. What does this dog, the other dogs and the pet dogs see?
Well dogs, as a community, seem to believe in the steady state theory since at the last count too, we had around 160 dogs and they know what dog-ness is all about.
Somebody I knew was chased by a pack of dogs on a beach. He had no other option but to get into the water. The dogs stood howling on the shore and were chased away by his friends. He lived for another six months and took the exit route on his own.The dogs knew, it seems.
Well what does this ‘special dog' in the visual see?
This dog sees the two paths. It sees that what we see as progress is a fall and we are heading in the wrong direction. It also sees the path that we should take, the path of human-ness, continuous improvement, real progress. It would probably not join us if we start imitating the other 161 dogs!
This dog knows. Most facts are stranger than fiction.
The Pipers of Hamlin, Wall street.
We are back at it again with the dog in company.
The master said, be the child. Where on earth are the children? They have vanished with the Pipers from Wall Street!
The children are so ‘well informed' these days that I feel myself an ignoramus. They know what is in and what is out and i am certainly out by those standards.
How do you take an ‘informed position' and be my SELF? How can I be my SELF when there is such a well- intentioned, charity driven, well meaning, messianic attack on SELF, the most threatened and endangered entity in our current world.
I am not complete in my SELF without a fan following (my twitter count of followers is zilch) or following somebody in sincere flattery.
Is there a gold standard certification in these things? I see that every guru of the day self - certifies their claims ! Most of them are younger than me, never been married, never raised any children.
I am afraid I would prefer not to follow anybody and drive away potential disciplies who would rob me of my silence.
Well in that case you can not be a GURU.
How long will gold be the standard? When everything else is of no value can gold have any value? If everybody does a Gandhi or Thoreau what happens to the economy?
You have'nt cotributed much to the economy. You are taking more than what you give to it. You have not been ill for a long long time which means you are contributing to the recession. How will the economy recover ?
Are we getting to the age of The Descent of Money ?
The ‘piped music' is so enchanting that i don't want to unplug and listen to my SELF which is under attack from all the four directions, from the bottom and the top. 24x7x 720. Perhaps what we consider music is noise which has silenced the silence, the real music from a dog's perspective.
We wonder where all the children have disappeared. They have lost their innocence and with it the wise men too have vanished. The Pipers have been doing a very good job of it.
Look at all the exercise freaks. They are all plugged in, connected, wired to their i-pods, i-phones, i-touch, i-book, i-spouses. It is a connected world !
In spite of all the stretching many of my one time friends too vanished in their forties.
The problem can be abstracted as: I > i or SELF > self
We cannot solve the puzzle without a decision compass which would help us to find the directions and we are able to fix our position. The four directions are the four P balls that we juggle around - Potential, Performance/metrics, Perfection and Psychodynamics (Continual renewal/ Continual Learning/ Continuous Improvement, Kaizen, whatever you choose to call this wheel of the car / the learning engine)
What is a learning engine?
A learning engines improves on its pervious performance.
I hope you will stop with the four balls!
I was about to pull out more smaller balls from each of the four big balls
That is enough for the day. Time for a break.
The next day:
What is the gap between self and SELF?
This is the space between the two paths, what we call the blue ocean space, the solution space or the problem space depending on which position one takes. This represents the unrealised potential, the gap between best of individual realisation of potential to the best of the collective potential of the human.
KISS !
Example: PCD lived for > 100 years while the life expectancy for males in the state was 72, the normality of the time. The potential / performance gap is 28 years if we just take this one dimension of potential/ performance. We don't take into account the quality of life of the masses and the quality of life that PCD enjoyed or the quality of his relationships or other achievements.
If we consider the case of SRC, 113, who is still working and hopes to work for more years, we get an idea of what potential is and where the masses are!We cannot really fix an upper limit to potential but we can chart out the broad contours of the direction of the path.
Ok I get a rough idea of the direction that you are talking about.
As we move forward we will be able to see what is beyond the next bend on the road.
The visual also suggests that a good part of our behaviour is sub-animal!
Well, yes, this is our shadow side, the porn that provides the grease to run the web engine, the medicines, drugs, the years wasted in asylums, prisons, lives lost in conflicts, terrorism, so on and so forth. Unrealised potential is the root cause of all our problems.
When we say be myself, what we mean is be my true SELF as distinct from what we have come to believe what we are as dictated by the noise around us.
WHY such a gap exists and HOW to bridge the gap are the other two balls.
It is in relation to these four directions that one can fix the position just as a compass or GPS would deliver what they are designed to.
But there are two kinds of positions as in the case of the lighthouse and the sailing vessel, the invariant and the variant positons.
The ship has to change course in relation to the lighthouse.
Be more specific?
As a surgeon I take the position that I am a professional which means I have a set of competencies which I practice in a specific domain which I continue to perfect over a life-time. I am also bound by a code of behaviour which expects me to hold my client's well-being as my overriding principle which provides the context in which my performance becomes measurable and the standards are the most challenging. In case of non-delivery, the surgeon will not be able to go scot-free as the Pipers of Hamlin, Wall Street.
I hope you see the invariant postion and the variant postions in the journey of the professional. The invariant is come what my , even at the cost of my life, I would remain a professional. it s a do or die postion. The variant is as i move ahed on the journey i continue to improve my competencise and scale higher and higher levels of perfection.
If this is clear enough, it is time we pull out the balls within balls. The journey from our animal self (i) to the human (I) begins here.
You are a pain. Enough for the day
I believe in the PIA theory of motivation.
Good day, JM
(Continued as part 2)
My Inglish style sheet says " break the cotainer and get the content" . English lovers please escuse.

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